Like most Mom’s and Wives I’m usually the first one up in the house. This is becoming more and more important for me because I feel like whatever mood I’m in, will determine the mood of my house. JJ will tell you, if Trina has a bad day seemingly everyone has a bad day. Lol. This morning I woke up happy (after Starbucks) but when I spoke to JJ it didn’t seem like he had the same chipperness that I had. I was downstairs in the office and I called up to him to see what he had planned for the day. Now JJ is always in a positive mind frame but I wanted him to be as bubbly as I was. I wanted his voice and tone to match mine. So after we hung up the phone I sent him a text and I asked him what can I do to make you happy today? Now I can’t tell you his response because my parents are on social media. LOL. But before long I heard him walking, talking on the phone, humming and singing! Hahaha… GO ME! The point is you (husband or wife) have the ability to set the tone for your spouse’s day. Your actions, or your reactions to situations can either make or break the mood. More importantly we have to let the Joy of the Lord be our strength. Don’t let situations get you so disturbed and ruin your mind frame. Even if things aren’t right between you and your spouse.. determine to have the ability to adjust to things that are beyond your control. Tell flesh how things are going to be today. Make your confession today that with the help of God, I will be infectiously happy and in a good mood.